@thinkaboutthebible So there are a couple of things I noticed about “natural” memory – that is, easily remembering things without deliberately using a memory palace and linking. And there are two things that make remembering things harder.
Non-naturally-spatially-linked moments of life, such as watching movies (although movies are still memorable because they have “spatial scenes” and also linked together emotionally in an easy to understand story), and especially WEBPAGES are hard to remember because of the lack of “3D” space. I think 2D space can be memorable, for example I can remember the world map with relative ease – the problem is that for Webpages, they change over and over and over. I flip though from app-to-app-to-app within a matter of seconds without surrounding spatial changes. The world map or globe, on the other hand, I have seen over and over and over over years and continually add to it. Webpages are distinct, we spend very little time on them, not 3D surround linked, and they’re not really 2D linked like a world map either. They’re like random pieces of paper that you spend a few minutes looking at, and the spatial “link” to the other webpages is not really there except going inside a text-hyperlink. And that’s the loose connection – we don’t spatially associate a new webpage with a text hyperlink, especially when I go from link-to-link-to-link quickly and busily, I don’t make those text hyperlink associations with new pages. Often, you’ll click an arrow or “next” button, which doesn’t have a distinct name or color. You could click 10 “next” buttons on a form, and now you won’t really remember what happened. It reminds me of living a life where you do things, watch things, fill out forms, and yet forget what you did. What did I do? “I filled out forms”. So now I’m on a kind of rant. I just wanted to note that when I go on a hike in nature or a house I haven’t been to before, it’s all naturally spatially linked up and there. Once I start repeatedly going to the same house or waking up in the same room, you get something different – the room will evolve in meaning similar to the way a person evolves in meaning after meeting them many times, but unfortunately unless I deliberately pay attention to how different it is each time I wake up in the same room, I end up just seeing “oh, just my room, not much new” and don’t form new memories. Same with meeting people. “Oh. That person.” as if nothing changed. No new memory. I start passing through life on autopilot when in fact, the details are always growing but start to pass over those details because I have to deliberately and mentally compare them to the last time I saw them… which, unfortunately, I might feel tired and just want to “get to work” with responsibilities or stresses without paying attention to the change or the good stuff. I could just end up with a world that appears stale and unchanging, filled with stresses and responsibilities. Well I think you can relate to what I’m talking about. Taking a walk or going somewhere spatially new and also looking very different somehow gets all those natural spatial connections rolling again.
Last thing to mention is driving or riding in a car – a big memory buster. Once I get into a car, I doze. Cars just move way too fast to spatially link and remember the surrounding environment. Here’s what I clearly do remember when riding in a car, and usually because I have to because I’m the one driving it: the turning points. “Ah, at this place, I take a right, at this place I take a left.” That’s the majority of what I remember, which is what I have to remember. Otherwise, a lot of the surrounding environment along the journey gets tossed. It’s unfortunately but it also highlights the memorability of taking time, walking, remembering “oh, I thought this thought while walking across this one tree.” Or, “yeah, me and this family member talked at this table, and I can remember the table and the conversation.” That’s partly because of the stability and time. The person stayed the same, and the table didn’t move, and I didn’t move. So I remember it all. I think you can relate to what I’m saying. And I could be wrong about whatever I said.